
I have a new book, "Dragons Prefer Blondes," coming out Tuesday, July 7, and I'm having a bit of freak out. As much as I planned for the promotional tour for this book, it still came around much faster than expected. I feel like a hamster in one of those wheels and I'll never catch up. :-)
Not that I'm complaining. Really, I'm not. In fact, having a book come out is pretty darn exciting. I've already received some emails from early reviewers who loved it, and that's the sort of thing that can make my day/month/year. I don't think my readers have any idea just how much their lovely emails mean to me. I try to tell them, but I think only another writer really gets that feeling.
What we do is art, and can be interpreted in so many way. For me, it's exciting that people get my books on different levels. I write them that way. Someone can pick one up and it's a good, fast read. Another person sees the comments I'm making on society. They are both right, and I appreciate one's opinion as much as the other.
Those letters are what help me during this freak out period when I'm worried about book sales, and if I've done enough to get the word out. So this is a thank you, to those of you who do take the time to write. I love and adore you all.
And I'd like to hear what you do to keep yourself from worrying about things you can't control.
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I can imagine you feel that way, with as much as you have going on! Deep Breath, everything will work out! Can't wait to get Dragons Prefer Blondes! ;)
July 7th is a good week for the book to come out! It's a lucky week! :)... awesome website, too.
As I tell my daughter, who is living farther away from me now the ever, every thing will turn out ok, maybe not exactly as you had planned but ok. And it does, these things will work out for you! Good Luck! My book is all ready in my shopping chart on the B&N web site!
As someone who also likes to make art (albeit in a different form, I do fiber arts) I can understand the freak out part! It's so easy to worry about what you've created. But I think you're doing exactly the right thing - go back over what people have already told you about your work, and realize that while you can' please everyone (maybe not even yourself sometimes) the important part is that you are pleasing SOMEbody out there, and that alone is very satisfying! ;) All of you Witchy writers need to understand that you're a very important part of all of the rest of us' lives. You fulfill a need for those of us who can't write, but love to escape into your stories! Without your talents (I know I'm not a writer like you) where would we turn???? We all have our talents for this world. Keep up the good work! Thanks~
I met you when you came to Amarillo and did a talk at the library for us, a few years ago now. You were nervous then, too, but survived, right? I'm glad things are going well for you!
About things you can't control - try to think of the worst case scenario and how you would handle it. Then when the reality is so much easier than you anticipated, you'll sail through with no problem.
You guys are really awesome!
Just remember to breathe. You have a gift, Candy...run with it! Your Charmed books and now the Caruthers Sisters are ALL winners. And while I am NOT an artist, I am a mother of 4 and know first hand you can't please everyone all of the time. You do your best and that's all that matters. And being that book whore (my children pegged me that) I assure you, you have another winner on your hands. I just want you to keep them coming. Your writing style rocks. I can't put them down! How needs to eat and sleep! Relax...I read it before the release so I am your 1st review. Can u find a Jake for me?
I think I'm pretty good about not worrying about things I can't control. If it does affect me though, I just pick up a good book to take me away. Hmm..I hope that's not an indication of how worrisome my life might be because I read a lot. Looking forward to reading your book next week.
Eva
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I find something else to concentrate on. It's usually not difficult for me because I tend not to worry much anyway, especially over things that I can't control.
Girl, you'll be fine! I know it. And I watch movies or immerse myself into something else or just think positive thoughts. Are you having a signing at our B&N? Tell me when! I can also make an announcement tonight at DFWWW if ya want.
Well, I know that I'm sure looking forward to your new baby - I mean book - coming out. Art? Certainly. the art of storytelling is ancient, and still as compelling today as it ever was. Your storytelling rocks.
You're right. Is in an art and when someone gives you a compliment about it, it can bring you to tears. At least it does me! :) But I cry over everything.
Congrats on your book release!!!
Your books are wonderful and practically sell themselves, but I'll be happy to come stand by your signing table at RWA and say loudly, "OMG, THESE ARE THE BEST BOOKS EVER!!!!" over and over again :-)
And I'll keep passing the word around online, of course.
Deep breaths...
This is all very good advice.
Christa, I sent you an email.
Deborah I'm holding you to that promise! ;-)
You have no reason to worry, July 7th is going to be a fantastic release day! Because you are a great writer and your books are fabulous!
As for how not to worry? Ha! My Mom nicknamed me "The Worrier" when I was younger.
Hi, Candy
I do not know where you get your energy for all these blog hops you're doing. I get worn out by a half dozen. You are going to need a true vacation at the end of this. (Yes, I know you just had one ...)
just found your blog and twitter feed - excited to find more ways to stay in touch with great authrors. :)
Love the title!
I'm a worrier, I can't help it but to sort of lessen the effect it can have on me, I read, watch movies, do whatever relaxes me to help! :)
You're right, it is art. I've been looking forward to this unveiling for some time. Can't wait for next Tuesday!
I usually read a good book to keep my mind off things that are worrying me. Getting into a great story takes me out of my daily life and is a great escape for me. Congrats on the new book, I'm sure it will be fantastic.
I'm so excited for you!!! A close friend just had her first book-release party and I don't think she's calmed down yet, lol. Good luck! And have fun!
I try not to think about things I can't do anything about. Not that I succeed, mind you but I do try. :)
Congrats!! I cant wait to read it, I can also totally understand why you might be freaking out a little, it is a big event. I would just relax take deep breaths and do whatever makes you not think about what is freaking it out.
bacchus76 at myself dot com
I am a worrier, too, but not as bad as I used to be. I used to literally make myself sick with worry until I realized that wasn't good for anyone involved. So instead of fretting too much about things I can't control, I focus instead on things I can. And if all else fails, I lose myself in a book and forget about it for awhile!
Margay
Less caffeine, more deep breathes, and if you can squeeze it in, a moment of silence and calm. Then you can jump back into the whirlwind and enjoy the excitement of the ride compared to worrying about it. :)
Looking forward to Dragons Prefer Blondes,
- Heidi, a blond who likes dragons
I have a hard time not worrying about things I can't control. At night my brain clicks away at a mile a minute and I have trouble sleeping. Funny enough, the way I stop that is to make up a story to myself. They are totally MarySue stories in which I am perfect (if you can't be perfect in your imagination when can you? Lol.) and things work out perfectly and they never, have anything to do with the subject that has me worrying ;)
Eventually all that perfectness wears me out and I fall asleep and during the day I keep busy enough that the worry stays at bay, usually by working, knitting or, the always fantastic escape, reading.
If it makes you feel any better, I've been waiting impatiently for July 7th since the day I finished The Demon King and I, since I need to find out more about the Caruthers family ;) Thank you for giving me a respite from my worries!
I can see writing as art, a fantastic way to express yourself, maybe live out dream senarios or fantasies...keep on writing, we love reading it!
I've given up worrying about things I can't control. Well, not really, but I've become more accepting that there are things I have no control over. I've decided I'll do what I can and hope for the best. Stressing won't change anything. It sounds good, but I'm not always successful. I'm getting better.
I didn't mean to make an anonymous comment. I hit the wrong key. I hate bifocals.
I actually have a hard time keeping myself from worrying about things...even those that I cannot control. When I am really stressed....I tend to sleep as an escape.
I seen you book for sale last week in a B&N in Alaska. I wanted to buy it so bad. I didnt do it because I heard somewhere that if bookstores put books out early and then how ever many they sale before the actual release date doesnt get counted in the sales numbers. I will just wait until next week and then go get it.
Alicia, thank you for waiting. Any time on Tuesday or after would be really great! :-) You are all so awesome Thanks for hanging out with me!
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